Twenty Pro-Active Suggestions For Bridge Building In Blended Families

1. Be Positive about the Parent from the Former Marriage.
   
2. Anticipate a Wonderful Future.
   
3. Give More Than Is Necessary.
   
4. Find Reasons to Thank the Child.
   
5. Tell Jokes, Laugh Together.
   
6. Create and Maintain Secrets.
   
7. Go on an Outing Together. 
   
8. Make Every Attempt to Be a Bright Spot.
   
9. Practice Giving Praise.Be a Friend. 
   
10. Believe in the Power of Love.
    
11. Be the Parent You Would Like to Have.
    
12. Avoid Triangulation.
    
13. Be Flexible.
    
14. Play Age-Appropriate Games. 
    
15. Look for Common Interests. 
    
16. Be a Cheerleader.
    
17. Overcome Resistance.
    
18. Include Children in Your Plans.
    
19. Never Give Up.